This can happen any time, at any place. The following are the best ways to meet women. Advice for each location included, and general pick-up advice can be found herein as well! Typically clubs can lead to more physical intimacy than emotional development, but a physical connection can also be a key building block to a relationship.
A bar is a lot more talk friendly than a club. Both places are equally as effective when it comes to meeting women. A dance on the dance floor can lead to just as many possibilities as a talk at the bar.
At The Mall The mall is a guaranteed place to find tons of women. While it may not by a physical location, it is just as practical for meeting women as a place you would go outside the house. Apps and websites often include features where mutual interest results in a notification.
For that to happen is extremely rare. The most popular of these events is speed dating. Speed dating is organized and removes the fear of the approach that can happen for men in real life. Everyone at a speed dating event wants to be there, the women there are seriously looking for a partner, just like the men. These women want someone, not all women at various other locations will be as like-minded.
The person setting you up will also be vouching for both individuals. Getting that information could potentially be helpful for future dates. College and College Classes College and college classes are only available for a limited amount of time, typically 4 years, but those 4 years should be the dating prime of your life.
Because of that time limit, college and college classes are relegated as an honorable mention. Everyone at college is looking to let loose and have a good time with the opposite sex. In either case you can meet as many women as you want and practice talking to women all day. Many people meet the person they end up marrying while in college.
College is the perfect way to build confidence with women that stays with you even after you graduate. Other places to meet women all year round: What are you reading? Meeting Women In the Summer, Warm Climates, and on Vacation When I initially wrote the following places to meet women I had written it as a Summer guide to meeting women, because the Summer offers a variety of venues that may not be as popular during the winter months.
There are many places, though, that these types of places are available year round. On top of that, this guide applies to vacations as well. The Gym Everyone wants to have the best beach body for the Summer. While the increase in gym activity typically starts in spring, women look to maintain themselves for the entirety of the Summer. You can ask a woman to compete in a carnival game, or to go on a ride with you. Going with friends and walking around provides a great opportunity to pick-up girls.
Park Similar to the gym scenario, women often jog at local parks to keep in shape. Because of this there are a ton of women around. Even simply petting a girls dog and asking basic questions, while making jokes about how much it likes you is an effective method.
In any physical activity, touching is bound to happen. Movies The Summer is the peak time of year for movie releases. Midnight releases have become a hit in recent years with tons of people going to movie theaters.
Imagine being on line at the theater and discussing the upcoming movie with a woman. Beach The beach is a key Summer hot-spot to pick-up women. You can practice talking either by yourself or with friends with women for the entire day. Similar to the park, there are basketball courts and volleyball courts as well.
Challenging a group of girls is a great way to meet new people. Instead of doing guys vs girls you can mix each other up as well, so the groups are broken up and you can mingle more intimately with your new group of friends.
Getting numbers at the end of the game can result in future group hangouts. Every town throughout the world has a popular spot or two or three , where people go to let loose and walk around, grabbing drinks or ice cream as they walk. Bar crawls are also a popular event during the summer.
The key to a hotspot that differs from the other locations, is that you can propose meeting up with the women later on. Local bands and semi-mainstream bands will typically play at local bars. Even accidental touching can spark a conversation. At these types of events women are dancing and getting a dance leads to instant touch and is a good sign for success that night. Since clubs are larger and have bar areas, conversation is also a viable way to pick up women.
Similar to bar concerts above, cover bands often play club shows. Picking women up this way could be a little more difficult.
Luckily all arenas have a concessions and shopping area, potentially even a very large one. This is where you can work your magic and if you meet someone plan to meet up at an after party or another night if you get her number. Tailgating is huge at these types of events as well. Mingling with your friends and another group at a concert is an extremely great way to meet people Some of my favorite pick-up attempts have been at large outdoor concerts.
Tailgating and the concessions area, both pre-concert, are prime for meeting people. All types of weird people roam a concert so joking around usually works.
The easiest time of year to expand your social circle is during the summer. Picking up women should come secondary to enjoying yourself somewhere. Having a good time comes first, meeting women should be organic and come with having a good time.
A natural flow beats a forced desperation any day. To speak from experience, a majority of my friends are female. If a group of guys were ever hesitant to approach because of me, they missed out on a group of hot girls and a guy who would have been nothing but supportive of whatever pick-up attempts they made.
You can try new types of conversations at these various places to hone your skills for the rest of the summer, as well as summers to come.