This subtle invitation makes it clear you're ready to heat things up. Teasing at all the fun you're having will make things that much hotter for your partner, too.
If it's been a while since you and your partner have met up, an open-ended question like this one can help to jog their memory. It's hard to resist a text that's playful, tells your partner that you miss them, and incorporates a pun.
Asking your partner a simple — yet sexy — question can be a great way to get started. The immediacy of this message lets your partner know you need to see them right that second. This is only recommended if your sexting partner has already consented to sending sexy pictures of themselves.
Aggressively putting someone on the spot is not sexy. Whether you're referring to an interrupted tryst or asking for round two, this message will remind your partner just how good your last meetup was. It never hurts to remind your partner that they're special — and very talented. Your partner will love knowing they're about to be worshipped. Who wouldn't love to know that the mere thought of them gets someone all hot and bothered?
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This text sends a loud and clear message to your partner: They have been on your mind all day. This is a much more interesting way to let your partner know that you're horny.
And sending a distress signal will tell them just how horny you are. Describing a specific sensation will transport your sext recipient to a hot moment you shared together — and make them want to recreate it for you ASAP.
Save this one for a rainy day. A little innuendo or, in this case, a lot can be extremely effective. Want to hear it? Asking for consent makes sure your partner will be as into it as you are," Dr. Is there anything hotter than a good tease?
Abbie Winters "You like that, don't you? If your partner is the one who's a little tongue-tied, this is a great way to send some encouragement with minimal pressure. Abbie Winters "I miss feeling you inside of me. If you're tongue-tied and looking for a way to get your sexting session started, this is a pretty good ice-breaker.
A big part of sexting? Reacting to your partner and letting them know just how much they turn you on. As far as getting started goes, this is a great way to set the mood. It's like they say — you can't get what you want unless you ask for it. As Marin tells us, this kind of text allows you to relinquish just enough control — and the results could be mind-blowing.
The cardinal rule of sexting applies here — be responsive when our partner sexts back. If you need a conversation starter, this one builds the fire of anticipation and can jumpstart a foreplay session.
Abbie Winters "Get on your knees. A little assertion can go a long way in getting your partner hot and bothered. Abbie Winters "That turns me on so much. Feel free to use a more specific variation of this text — it never hurts to let your partner know exactly how you feel. Abbie Winters "I'm going to make you come so hard. It's a promise that you'll actually want to be held accountable for — and hopefully, your partner will reciprocate. Seduce your partner with the promise of what's to come.