Girls are born with a natural instinct to be care givers and mothers which in a way makes them natural leaders. Boys on the other hand, come into the world as wild animals. They have to be domesticated. In their formidable years their mothers domesticate them by giving them spankings. As the boys mature most of their teachers are women who discipline them.
By the time a boy becomes a domesticated man, he is very comfortable being a subordinate to a woman in fact, he has been trained to be subordinate to a woman. To further my point: Lets take a typical couple, Sue and Jon. They are living in poverty. Sue tells her boyfriend, Jon, that she is pregnant. Jon was never domesticated so he splits. He abandons Sue for he wants nothing to do with pregnant women or babies.
He goes off and finds another girl to impregnate and he may do this ten or twelve times. He may father ten or twelve children with each child having a different mother and all of those children grow up fatherless. This is what poor people do. These girls who have a child with Jon also may have one or two children with other men. Why are these girls, like Sue, so quick to open their legs to such unreliable boys? I say boys because they cannot man up and take responsibility for their child.
The girls who are so quick to open their legs to boys like Jon are living at the poverty level. Girls, if you want to get poor and stay poor, have a baby out of wed lock.
Getting back to Sue, she has her baby and it's a boy. Sue cares for her baby, nurtures it and begins domesticating the boy but when the boy reaches the age of three years, he takes on the characteristics of his father. More and more the boy reminds Sue of the wild animal who abandon her so she begins to resent her son.
Her domesticated spankings are no longer given in love but rather given in frustration and anger. Instead of domesticating her child, her spankings are teaching him that violence is the way to get what you want. Unknowingly, Sue is training the boy to become a vicious, wild animal. Once these wild animals are let out onto the streets they join into packs or gangs.
By the time they reach the age of eighteen some of these wild animals commit horrendous crimes and end up being locked into cages by the government. Some are locked in cages for the rest of their lives while others are in and out of cages for the rest of their lives. Our prisons are overcrowded and overflowing. As men, when we date a woman for the first time we can't do enough for them. We open doors for them and always let them go first. We pay attention to every word they say and we form a very deep intimate and loving relationship.
Then we ruin the relationship by getting married. When a girl goes on a date with a guy for the first time, she should not touch a door knob or door handle. She should give the guy a chance to open the door for her.
If she rides in his car, when they get to their destination, she should sit in the car and give the guy a chance to run around the car and open her door and if he doesn't then she should sit there until he does. She has to establish from the very beginning of their relationship that she is in charge. That she is very special and he is to serve her. Men love to serve, they can't do enough for a woman, that is, until they get what they want.
So girls, you have to keep the boy wanting. Keep him wanting until you are sure that he's domesticated and if he's not, then it's up to you to domesticate him. If you have any feelings for him then you should domesticate or train him to be the exact type of man that you want.
Keep in mind that you are the superior gender and he needs your guidance. He wants you to guide him because he knows that you love him and you know what's good for him. Always keep the Mommy little boy relationship. The first thing he should learn is obedience. Like any wild animal, you train him with little rewards. After a while he will perform your bidding without even thinking about it. In the first year of my marriage I was in control of our relationship or my wife let me believe that I was.
I was the male and the proud leader of our marriage. I would often prance about nude in front of my wife displaying my penis. It was a symbol of my male superiority.
I determined when, where and how we would have sex. During that first year I was arrogant and obnoxious but after that first year I must have become complacent and took my wife and her sex for granted because she then cuckold me.
I was humbled, shamed and became submissive. I no longer pranced about in front of my wife for I was now ashamed of my male member knowing that it could never compare to her lover's.
When she cuckold me, our marriage suddenly became female led. She took control of her sex and mine. She determined when and if I would have her sex. She was so beautiful and sexually appealing that I knew that I was not worthy of her. She rejected my sexual advances and she demanded absolute fidelity and obedience from me.
When we were dating and the first year of our marriage when we went out to a party my wife would always ask me if she could fix a plate of food for me. I would answer, "Sure Hon. Would you get me a hamburger and some potato salad? Now when we go to a party, she commands me, "Get me a plate of food. You know what I like and get me a glass of wine. Whenever we are at a party, my wife's girlfriends all know that she has a boyfriend and my wife takes great pride in demonstrating to them my servitude and obedience to her.
Her girlfriends admire her, asking, "How do you get him to be so attentive? My husband would never be like that. Her girlfriends had steady boyfriends so she kept me as her steady. A couple of times I protested and tried to end the relationship only to have her masturbate me into submission. When we started dating neither one of us had any experience with sexual relations so it was easy for us to wait until we were married. This was the time that she learned to keep me calm and submissive by masturbating me.
She used masturbation as a means of behavioral modification and after we were married she used it to discipline me. Her hand jobs are quick with a minimum of physical effort on her part with no passion or emotion. It is a quick way to get me gratified, passive and obedient but her hand jobs leave me feeling remorseful and inadequate because I'm prevented from gratifying her by giving her an orgasm.
When I attempt sexual intercourse, her hand will intervene and render my erection into a flaccid, useless appendage.
By denying me sexual intercourse she prevents my male dominate position thus reinforcing her female authority. She has taken complete control of my sex by emasculating me and I probably deserved it. In an attempt to express my masculinity I began to grow a mustache and a beard. She would have none of that. This one night we were preparing for bed.
We both sleep in the nude and I was watching her from across the bed as she was pulling back the covers. I was admiring how beautiful she is and how lucky I am to be getting into bed with her. She has a beautiful face with deep penetrating brown eyes and when her eyes looked at you, if you're a man, you become aware of your penis and that's because she's not only beautiful but very sexual.
Any man working next to her, will brush up against her or touch her in some innocent way and I can't blame them. To compliment her eyes she has a wide mouth with wet puffy lips that look like they should be sucking a lollypop.
She's a full body woman, not fat and not thin with large firm breasts and large nipples. When I look at them, I just want to be like a little boy and nestle between her breasts, suckling on her nipple. She has full rounded hips and buttocks with a puff of pubic hair between her thighs which is another warm place that I long to nuzzle into. Getting into bed I reached for her but she rebuffed me by saying, "No! Just lie on your back and let me play with you. Let me make love to you. I just took my shower and I don't want you jumping all over me.
Just lie back," she said as she placed her hand on my chest and pushed me down so I would lie flat on my back. She began stroking me and saying, "I'm a woman so I don't require sex like you do. Ahh, now doesn't this feel pleasurable? It feels very pleasurable.