Lesbian sex for the first time! I know, you can hardly stand waiting another day, and your hormones are probably talking pretty loudly about it. Want to find the right girl? Here are 6 ways to make it mind blowing and special: One step at a time, just like everything else in life. That alone can be an amazing sexual encounter.
There are signals of sexual interest — she is touching you all the time on your hands, your arms, your hips and waist, your back and shoulders. This kind of touching is probably going to lead to sex. Well, there are a couple of ways to approach this. But pay attention to what kind of touch turns you on! Most of us masturbate these days.
Knowing yourself and being able to share how you like to be touched with your lover will be very helpful. Alcohol eases anxiety, but it diminishes our ability to reach orgasm. Leave it alone or go easy and stick with one drink. Lesbians get them and give them to other women.
Many STDs can be prevented just by using the right tools like a dental dam. And take the lead by getting tested yourself. Sex toys are great but not for your first time.
Save toys for later. Communicate Ask her what she likes and what she wants. Be brave and tell her where and how to touch you, too. It will make you more nervous and tense, which will inhibit your ability to really enjoy the whole experience.
Slow yourself down and really enjoy the experience. Slowly take her clothes off. Enjoy every inch of her body slowly and deliberately enjoy the fact woman-to-woman sex lasts a lot longer on average than heterosexual sex. Yes, women rock when it comes to long-lasting and great sex. Take the time to enjoy every inch of her body — her neck and ears, shoulders and arms, chest and breasts, belly and butt, thighs, calves and feet.
Yes, go for luxuriating in her feminine body. Finally, have realistic expectations. You may orgasm or you may not. The goal is to get close and get physical. Gay girls, what was your first lesbian sexual experience like? What tips can you offer the lesbian newbies out there?