Kissing her lips more passionately with tongue. Running your hands through her hair. Running your hands on her body: Kissing her stomach, breasts, and panty line. Lifting her shirt up to expose her skin or taking it off completely. Rubbing her vagina through the outside of her panties.
Sensually removing her panties while looking her in the eyes. Teasing the bare skin around and on her vaginal lips. Performing oral sex on her. Having sex with her. Take a few steps forward, go back to less intimate touching, and then continue escalating. These are just some ideas to consider to ensure a smooth progression from foreplay to sex. Everyone is different but most women want at least minutes before having intercourse. Develop Trust Sex is a physically scarier act for most women than men.
She is being completely vulnerable and allowing you to enter her body. You want to relieve her of that fear through your words and actions. Never jerk away suddenly, look hurt, or pout. Keep calm, smile, and stay turned on. Reinforce the judgment-free environment. You can even take a few minutes to softly talk to her and get her to relax again.
Continue pleasing her and try to move forward again in a few minutes. Continue doing what she is comfortable with. If during the current session she changes her mind, she can let you know. Guys worry too much about getting laid that very day. Enjoy the experience for how far it goes. She has to come to that conclusion on her own. Be the guy that provides a positive, supportive, and memorable experience.
That only leads to deeper, dirtier, and more satisfying sex. I work with guys just like you to magnetically attract women, increase their confidence, and become the man girls really want. Sign up below to get immediate access to the First Date Field Manual. Makes thing not so awkward and more natural. Thanks for all the ideas! Also, by taking your time and getting her to relax, it takes pressure off of you.
This allows you to relax as well. Nick Notas on December 23, Thank you Gavin! Dan on December 24, I love how your advice is always founded on respect, Nick. Truly encouraging and inspiring! Reply Ronald Messier on December 25, Nick: You make many fine points. I am 61 now and when I was in my early teens I met a man who was taking the place of my father.
My friend said to me to ask a woman what she wants and likes. Nick Notas on January 5, Thanks for the insight Ronald. I agree with your friend and I actually wrote about asking women what they want: Reply Hunter on December 27, Excellent article Nick, it pretty much sums up my preferred approach in such a situation, and in making things so relaxed for her it also releases some of the sexual pressure you might be having yourself!
I make it a personal mission for the girl to have the greatest time with me in the bedroom, i even rather put my pleasure aside or delaying it, in exchange for making her feel good herself. I believe that pleasure will come back around times over with mine, her own, and the gratification for having made her feel so good. I find it shameful for me to let a lady walk away without having experienced any sort of pleasure with me.
But i have to admit i have bigger trouble bringing women up to that point, picking them up, and not so much over this point. More men really need to understand that concept. Done deal the next time! It shows you care about her comfort level while still being confident. I wll try it for sure! Reply Kim on February 28, Just a tip. It takes a lot of courage for a girl to say no, we always feel guilty. Reply Nasty on April 10, What if she came to your house,went into your bedroom,she say she is cold but u ignored and later she came again u tried but she dosent want to,she said she is dating someone else Cosmos Abban on April 27, Thanks for these steps.
You are a genius Reply Pankaj on April 28, Awesome, really helpful article. I am highly thankful to you for providing such great tips. I am going to sleep with my girlfriend. I was with a girl extremely shy and have more work in than usual so that the weather kept calm, serene, quiet, comfortable and relaxed. Thanks for the tips. The first time with anyone is always awkward and nerve racking.
I will definitely be applying these tips Nick, thanks very much for your insight!