How to Fuck a Girl: The 7 Fundamentals of Mind-Blowing Sex Apr 20, Do you know how to have the sort of mind-blowing, orgasmic sex that women tell their friends about? Or do your sex sessions fizzle out in a few minutes and end with a dud?
So yeah, sex is pretty damn important. If you want to have any sort of fulfilling sexual relationships with women, you need to get good in the sack. That way, you can keep yourself sharp and your woman satisfied. If you can learn, internalize, and apply these fundamentals, women will literally crave sex with you and have orgasm after orgasm.
The 7 Fundamentals of Mind-Blowing Sex 1. The Build Up She knows the build up is important… As men, we can flick a switch and be ready for sex in seconds. What they need is for you to get them in the sexual mood. A big part of this is giving a woman the 4 things she needs before sex: And if you want to know how to talk to girls and make it sexy, check out my free video course. Click here to get access now.
The Right Positions Okay, now for the actual sex part… You should have some good sex positions in your arsenal. These should be a combination of positions with a lot of skin-to-skin contact to maximize intimacy and pleasure and positions with less skin-to-skin contact to add a little variation.
Here are some sex positions with a lot of skin-to-skin contact: When fucking her in missionary, wrap your arms around her and hold the backs of her shoulders with your hands while lying on top of her — as opposed to hoisting yourself over her with minimal contact like in regular missionary.
I recommend checking out his post on it here as he describes it in-depth. When fucking her doggy style, lean over and touch your chest to her back while you wrap your hands around her breasts. Again when fucking her doggy style, you can lie her down flat on the bed and lean over her back and kiss her neck as you take her from behind. Your upper bodies should be parallel to each other.
Here are some of the best sex positions that have less skin-to-skin contact: Here, she rides you while facing the opposite direction. Have her crouch down on all fours and penetrate her from behind.
Here, she simply sits up and rides you. When fucking her doggy style, flip her to her side and continue penetrating her keep your body in the same position as regular doggy style. They want a man who can fuck them hard. Tell her you want her to suck your dick, then sit on the edge of the bed and have her get on her knees and do it. Move her into the positions you want so she can enjoy the experience. Fuck her doggy style in front of a mirror, pull her head up by the hair, and have her make eye contact with you as you take her from behind.
You can do this while fucking her, or even just bend her over a desk or chair and spank her a few times before you start having sex. In fact, in my experience, this level of dominance is just scratching the surface.
Women are not all the innocent little good girls that society would have you believe. Have a little caution with this stuff the first time you have sex with a girl. For example, she might like to get her hair pulled a little bit, but dislike getting spanked. If you try something a little bit and can sense she likes it, you can keep upping the level. Communication is important through all aspects of sex — before, during, and after. Before sex, this involves connecting with her emotionally.
She needs to feel passion, and for that, she needs an emotional connection. Hold sexy eye contact. Eye contact is incredibly powerful for connecting with women.
Look into her eyes for majority of the conversation. I found this a bit surprising, but girls tell me over and over again that most guys are silent during sex. Think of it like positive feedback. As for dirty talk… Dirty talk is part of an immersive sexual experience. And so, dirty talk should NOT be logical at all. The key is to say the right thing at the right time. But you should gradually increase the amount of dirty talk over time so you can kind of ease her into it.
Foreplay A lot of men like to get straight to the point. But foreplay is absolutely essential for a few reasons… First, you need lubrication for sex. She wants you to get her soaking wet. Here are some tips for great foreplay: Give her a sexual massage. Get some quality oil and have your girl lay face down on the bed.
Massage her neck, shoulders, and lower back, then slowly move down to her legs. Finger her the right way. In other words, eat her out. There are a lot of different ways to do this. One good way is to position your tongue on either the left or right of her clit.
Then, move your tongue in circles around the clit only either in a clockwise or counterclockwise motion. On average you should switch up sexual positions every minutes or less, or when you have the urge to try something new. You should also aim to switch between dominant and passionate sex. Maybe you bend her over the kitchen table and give her a quickie. Then, later on in the night, you have a long, sensual love-making session. You can even change it up during each sex session.
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