Share Tweet Pin It Everyone needs to let loose once in a while and indulge in a bit of freaky sex, while still being careful not to go overboard and scare people away. I am all for having freaky sex.
Getting crazy and letting your wild side out is what sex is for after all. We need to acknowledge that side of our human nature from time to time and experience all the kinky sex we can. Now, that being said, there are many people who take freaky sex to a crazy level tending to go overboard a bit. These are usually the ones who end up scaring people off and even getting a reputation for being a freak in the sheets.
But there are also people out there intimidated by the idea of wild and freaky sex. Another no-no in my book. Tips for not going overboard while having freaky sex Before we dive into all the different ways you can kick up your freak-o-meter during sex, we should first lay out the ground work for this kind of sex. Follow these guidelines before skipping to freaky sex. You never want to launch yourself onto someone in full-on freak mode. Ease into your freakiness slowly, so they have a chance to brace themselves.
Body language indicates if someone enjoys your freakishness or not. Pay attention to their sounds, where their hips go, and even if they tense up when you touch them somewhere. People who successfully have freaky sexy without going overboard are the confident ones.
They make you believe you love the freakiness—which they will be if you remain confident. Being shy might just add a layer of awkward on top of freak.
Now that you understand the way freaky sex should operate and know what you should be doing first, we can get to the good stuff. Here are all the different ways to have freaky sex without going overboard.
You might just kill the mood. Doing it this way increases their desire for what they want too. Human beings are not supposed to be shy and tentative creatures. Well, you know what? To hell with society! Real life dirty sexy public flashing confessions ] 5 Use your teeth every now and then. The when and the where you use your teeth can make all the difference when it comes to crossing that overboard line.
When using your teeth, play, tease, and gently nibble on different parts of their body. Nothing says freak like grabbing a handful of hair and pulling it—not too hard though. Hair pulling is primal and raw and sexy as hell. You may have some typical sex toys lying around that you like using from time to time, but what about sex toys that are wild and crazy?
Using some toys your partner may have never seen before might intimidate them, but it might also drive them wild. But what about using other foods?
You can even use sour candies to run along your body and make the other person find the sour spots. Make them use ONLY their mouths to undress you. Playing different games adds a level of freak they may not get elsewhere.
The key is to stick with these rules. You know what I mean. Whip them with functional—yet not too painful—whips. Blindfold them and leave them waiting. Does your person have a fetish you know about or even discovered during your freaky sex rampage?
Feet fetishes are super common so if they have this fetish, then use your feet to pleasure them everywhere. Sexual bucket list — 17 fun, sexy ideas you have to try ] [Read: Liked what you just read?