I want to make it as enjoyable as possible for both of us. Your help is appreciated. Wearing gloves and condoms can make that less of a hassle, as can putting a dark towel down before you get started.
One of the best ways to improve your odds of keeping things neat is for the person on the receiving end of anal play to have a good diet. Of course, even folks who generally have good diets sometimes eat things that upset their digestion. For the most part, this is more about personal comfort than anything else. And some people discover that the preparation can help put them in a sexy mood, just like lighting candles or putting on lingerie.
There are a few different options for doing enemas. First, you can buy a hose that attaches to the bath faucet. But if your water pressure or temperature is prone to change when someone turns on a sink, that can be a problem. If you have a filter on your sink or a filter pitcher, use that. Check the temperature before pouring it into the bottle and make sure the valve is closed, first! With these sorts of enema kits, you hang the bottle on something and gravity does the work.
Lubricate the nozzle, lie on your back or side, insert the nozzle and open the valve. The third choice is the disposable enemas that are available at any drug store. They contain a laxative, but you can empty and rinse the bottle out pretty easily. Follow the same directions for making saline water and for getting into position.
You simply lubricate the nozzle, insert it and squeeze the water out. Once the water is inside you, remove the nozzle. You can also release the water into the toilet and reuse the bottle a few times in the same session!
There are also non-disposable versions of this style, but they work pretty much the same way. People offer different advice regarding how long to hold the water in. But there are a couple of tips I can offer. Since the rectum and colon have all sorts of folds and pockets, water can get trapped until you move into a new position. Another option, either on its own or in addition to enemas, is to use wipes before starting your anal pleasures to make sure that the external area is nice and clean.
Use the unscented, hypoallergenic wipes that they make for babies. Plus, you can use them to clean up afterwards, too. I hope that helps! If you have any questions, please email our staff experts, Dr. Carol Queen and Dr. Charlie Glickman, at education goodvibes. For product-related questions, please email or call our customer service staff at customerservice goodvibes.