The Rules Revisited I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
After all, cute is still attractive. But in the back of my mind I knew that my compliment was mildly backhanded, even though it was never my intention. But growing up, most girls are not given the freedom to dress or act in a provocative manner, so they don't get to "practice" looking sexy. Because girls grow up dressing cute, they become comfortable in the types of clothes, hairstyles and makeup that create a cute look. Ultimately this means that your average girl is only just learning how to pull off "sexy" when her desire to do so is strongest i.
Just because you are short or have dimples does not mean you cannot be sexy, in the same way that height or sharply shaped eyebrows don't preclude the possibility of looking cute. Risk is a matter of your own will, and confidence follows from risk - as does experience. Let's consider the characteristics of both looks. I've made a list of associations that I have for the two styles: Innocent, light-hearted, wide-eyed, adorable, affectionate, eager, naive, young, youthful, joyful, pretty, animated, open, trusting, candid, colorful, kitten The "cute" associations are predictably child-like.
Notice how in both pairs of pictures I've posted, the sexy woman's gaze is piercing - calm, confident and provocative. As I've said before , your style is projected much more by your personality and demeanor than by your clothes. You can probably imagine a sexy woman dressed in cute clothes, or vice-versa imagine the cute Megan Fox on the right holding herself like and making the same expression as the sexy Megan Fox on the left - it would still be sexy, even without the tight dress and wild hair.
In order to achieve that look, you must adopt the associated personality characteristics. Once the mindset exists, the clothes follow naturally, or at least easily. Megan Fox As in most cases, feigning the mindset can help you to obtain it. You need to "fake it 'til you make it.
This is because, in most instances, your insecurities about what you are incapable of wearing are unfounded. Once you try them and see that they work, your confidence will spike, and you can then repeat the process. I routinely see very concrete things that sexy girls are doing or wearing, but cute girls are not.
There isn't some kind of natural inability holding them back; it is their state of mind, and then also following from their mindset their presentation: They aren't showing off their body by wearing tight clothes; they wear flowing clothes that mask their feminine form They aren't wearing fashionable clothes though this isn't always what will make you look best, you also shouldn't usually be trying to emulate your mother's dress sense.