It contains more than of my authoritative articles about all aspects of sexuality. Sexual lubricants are safe and inexpensive, and they instantly make lovemaking more comfortable and enjoyable at any age. Zestra This lube-like gel does more for women than just lubricate lovemaking. Developed by a research pharmacist, its herbal ingredients make the clitoris a little more sensitive to erotic touch. In the one study to date, 20 women used either a placebo or Zestra, and kept diaries of their reactions.
Zestra significantly increased their arousal, genital sensation, sexual pleasure, and enjoyment of orgasm Ferguson, D. It helps women have more enjoyable sex. The site is friendly, well organized, easy to navigate, and price-competitive with other toy marketers. The site contains a wealth of solid sex information—dozens of informative articles about sex toys and lovemaking. If you live in the UK or Europe, this London-based company markets a broad array of classy sex toys and lingerie.
The NetFlix of Sex Education. Sex educator Mark Shoen, Ph. Since then, he has produced 50 films and videos. His site offers all of his programs plus more by other producers. Some are historical interviews with Alfred Kinsey and Dr. Others are amusing instructional films from the s on dating and marriage. Some are medical sexual anatomy. Others deal with sexual preference and gender issues. Some women may object to Femme videos, but studies show that women clearly prefer them to standard porn.
University of Connecticut researchers showed college students men, women either standard porn or Femme videos. Most men said they found mainstream porn and Femme videos equally arousing. However, by a considerable margin, the women preferred the Femme programs—and reported more lovemaking afterward.
Ancient Secrets of the Kama Sutra: Each of the eight stages is enthusiastically acted out by attractive, sexy lovers who are clearly enjoying themselves. Great sex requires sensuality, notably whole-body massage. Every square inch of the body is a sensual playground and whole-body massage makes genital sexuality feel all the more erotic and fulfilling.
Erotic Massage Book and DVD are a wonderful introduction to sensual massage—everything from a basic back rub to advanced genital fondling. Together they teach lovers the art of intimate communication through the language of touch. A friend assures her she can.
Sexological purists will find plenty to criticize, but as far as promoting sex toys is concerned, this romantic comedy is second to none. Mike says two thumbs up! Enter Marie and Jack, a married couple who are both porn actors. Their professional sex is standard porn—piston-like penises and women whose only jobs are to open their mouths and legs. But at home, their personal lovemaking is very different, much more playful and sensual, with more whole-body massage and much less genital fixation.
Neither older sex nor sexless marriage get much media attention, but many studies show that most older adults want to remain sexually active, and that about 5 percent of couples— one in twenty—rarely or ever do it.
And Carell plays the therapist realistically and compassionately. It uses comedy to take marital sex problems seriously. The clit has been alternately celebrated, denounced, and obscured for centuries. The makers of the former, a husband and wife, have also created several other relationship-enhancing games, among them: The information is excellent.
The chat room is supportive. And the treatment information is current and easy to understand. Most men with ED eventually accommodate to erection loss, and for those who choose to remain sexual, there are plenty of ways to make love—and enjoy marvelous orgasms—without an erection. But for men who have not yet adjusted or for those who would like to share their experiences, FrankTalk is a wonderful resource.
Silverberg has compiled an enormous amount of solid, well-researched sex information and advice written in an engaging style. Straight Talk About Sex After She also fell madly in love at age 57, and enjoyed many years of marriage and great sex until her husband passed away. Widener is one of the leading training programs for sexologists and sex therapists, and the outstanding staff has created an information clearinghouse about sex and aging, and informative programs for older adults and professionals who deal with sex and aging.
Epp answers questions succinctly, knowledgeably, and sensitively. GoAskAlice and Scarleteen are by and for adolescents and young adults. Both provide excellent information and advice. This site, published by a couple, teaches men how to provide greater pleasure to women, allowing them to work up to more pleasurable orgasms.
But about one-third of sex problems require one-on-one sex therapy, which, studies show, helps about two-thirds of clients. Sex therapists practice in every major metropolitan area. These three sites both offer directories of sex therapists in the U. Her approach is compassionate, woman-oriented, and more spiritual than most other sexologists.
Her books are thought-provoking and relationship-enhancing. Published by noted sex therapists Marty Klein, Ph. Books There are dozens of great sexuality books, with more released every year.
This list is idiosyncratic, but these books are among those I recommend: Mainstream porn is a male sexual fantasy involving effortless sexual abundance without the burden of a relationship. Unfortunately, many men believe that porn-style sex is the way sex should proceed, that women like sex that way.
Some do, but the vast majority do not. We should have no trouble parking at the crafts fair. Everyone has done it, and most people still do, even those in happy, long-term relationships. But few talk about it, and even fewer take it seriously as a subject for in-depth investigation.
The Big Book of Masturbation is a veritable encyclopedia of solo sex: Morin is a respected sex therapist. Taormino is a lesbian journalist. Their books are the main sources for my article Anal Play Without Pain. Noted anthropologist Fisher investigates the fascinating neurochemistry of falling in love and long-term attachment in Why We Love.
She makes this dry-sounding subject spring to life and sheds new light on the hormones and neurotransmitters that govern both falling madly in love and the comfortable attachment of being an old married couple.
In The Book of Love, Laughter, and Romance , the Jonases, creators of several great couple games see above include postcards in their products asking how their customers fan the flames of romance.
Romance is not about what you do, but rather, how you do it, how you invest energy in your relationship and make the other person feel special. The clitoris is more than the little nub nestled beneath the upper junction of the vaginal lips. This book is the main source for my article The Clitoris: Lloyd makes a strong case that only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during intercourse, that 75 percent need direct clitoral stimulation.
This book is the main source for my article Orgasms During Intercourse. But so many women wanted the treatment that the poor doctors developed sore hands, and some enterprising physicians invented a machine to do the work for them.
This book is the main source for my article, The Strange History of Vibrators.