Your compatibility clicks and clashes Where you click: Quite possibly THE most loving combo on the planet. Beauty, harmony, peace and justice: Date Nights are epic affairs and lavish spending is the name of the game. But…TWO people wearing rose colored glasses? Debt can rack up quickly, and since neither of you likes dealing with conflict, so too can denial.
Before the bill collectors come a-knocking, create a pleasurable experience out of working on joint finances. Dress up in vintage loungewear as you pore over Quickbooks; sign utility bill checks with an ostrich feather-tipped pen. Start an entertainment budget for your nights on the town, but have savings auto-deducted from your paychecks in equal measure.
By the way, I just scored two Hamilton tickets—surprise! Put two spontaneous air signs together, and you might just get an exciting, non-stop barrage of conversation and ideas. But do any of these grand schemes actually happen? Your social signs both crave novelty. In fact, you might be the pair camped outside the Apple store, entertaining the crowds with a magic show or a mobile coffee cart.
You both easily get scattered, and your million friends, activities and separate interests could make it hard to find quality time. You may be constantly on the move and never really rooted. Air signs are communicative, but not always compassionate—your arguments can turn into brutal verbal dagger-flinging. There are four elements in astrology: Each one plays an important role in the greater whole of humankind. A love match with someone from the same astrological element offers the comfort of familiarity.
As a same-element couple, make a conscious effort to not get stuck in a rut or even a competitive dynamic. Spending time with people of another element can introduce a more balancing energy. For example, a grounded earth sign can ground you by adding more structure and tradition. A sensitive water sign can bring you out of your heads and into your hearts. For best results, strike the right amount of change and stability. Our aunt and uncle, both air signs, were constantly renovating their home—and while it often added chaos, it seemed to keep them together.
Your combined social circle can rival the circumference of the earth! Air signs crave constant stimulation and might even be the pair who pulls off an open relationship. Cardinal signs are both leadership-driven, headstrong and like to be first. In this love match, you will always need to work on compromise. Otherwise, you can butt heads and fiercely dig in your heels, driving a wedge into your relationship. Birthdays, holidays and other occasions are NOT to be missed in a cardinal sign coupling.
These are major life events that merit a grand celebration with an epic gift to match. Your signs can be sophisticated and status-seeking—you love dressing up and turning heads as a dashing duo and yes, even inspiring envy among your friends.
Impressing each other is part of your courtship ritual in a cardinal sign love match. To minimize fighting, one of you should take charge at a time. Or, create a shared project where you play to your differing strengths, each of you shining in your own rights, but never competing. You are both yang signs: In this astrology love match, you can motivate each other…or you can find yourself in a power struggle. Sharing the power and taking turns having the upper hand will be the key to your happiness.
Your signs are conjunct , or the same sign zero signs apart. As they say, how can you love somebody else unless you love yourself? If you date or get into a relationship with someone of the same sign, congratulations. Now, you can celebrate that with a kindred spirit! Otherwise, passion may cool to a brother-sister vibe.