Aug12 Yes…Oh God, yes!!!! Who does not like oral sex? How can I sit back or lay back and enjoy a trip downtown? What hang ups can a Big Girl have when it comes to oral? Spread out and naked can make a Big Girl with some confidence issues really uncomfortable. He wants to look, he wants to taste and he wants to please you.
Say that to yourself a few times and get used to the idea. Let him look, touch and taste it. There is no better feeling in the world than having your partner show you how sexy you are to them.
Every human on the planet has a unique scent and that includes your lady bits. If your man wants to go downtown and you are not just stepping out of a shower, then take a moment to freshen up a bit. Sweat and bodily functions can give your natural scent an unwanted kick, you do not want your lover to get a nose full of that. Grab some baby wipes or female fresh wipes and give yourself a quick swipe.
If you have an infection or you smell fishy…no go. If you have never done so, there are likely two causes. You should have nothing in your head besides the moment and what you are feeling. Negative thoughts will freeze you and prevent you from enjoying sex, in general. The other is my next topic, so keep reading. He does and nothing, nada, nyet. Magoo in the dark. The whole reason his face is down there lapping up your snatch is because he wants to please you, make you cum and get you ready for his entry.
Or he wants you to reciprocate. Either way you are doing both yourself and him a disservice by not helping him out. You can do it two ways, first you can verbally call out directions. That can be hot, dirty talk and really enhance the experience as well as helping him, help you, cum like a geyser. You get the picture.
The other way is to move your ass where you need it to be. Literally grind yourself on his face. Is he just a pinch too low, tilt your pelvis so your clit hits his tongue and then grab his head and hold him there.
Gently use your thighs and knees to keep him in place and then move your pelvis up or down as needed. I mean, sex is a two way street and if you want him to pleasure your bits with oral, you should always try and return the favor.
Rare since most of us trim the trim but if you are going natural, you may want to invest in a bikini wax or a good razor and landscape that area.