By Noah Michelson 2. The year-old recently appeared in his first adult film alongside two considerably younger adult film professionals. What was it like to make your first adult video at the age of 83? How could it not be? What could be more delightful? What was the best part?
The best part was just being there and doing it. Would you do it again? We who have experienced that owe it to our sisters and brothers to share that good news with all who will hear it! May their efforts flourish in bringing the guilty ones to justice! How do you define your sexual identity?
In saying this, I do not denigrate the many workshops and other training events that have helped me clear out wrongful images imprinted by a well-meaning but wrong-headed society. Moreover, sexual behaviors and practices can be learned for the enjoyment and enhancement of this kind of play — for the benefit of all partners!
How is your sex life at 83 different from your sex life at earlier stages of your life? I invite anyone, of whatever age, to do the same, and then to give thanks to the Divinity who gives us these bodies and invites us to take pleasure in them. My sad assumption is that anyone who believes that and gives up on having sex is using their failing joy from sex as an excuse for other dynamics in their life that robs the sex of its luster and bliss. I would dispute this fabrication by pointing to many elders I know even older than I am!
I would not dispute that. But from my experience, and the testimonies of other older men, I would say that more is not necessarily better. In fact, in many areas of life, including sex, getting older can bring forward all manner of delicious subtleties and make life richer, fuller. Learn to pay attention and look for those subtleties.
Learn to notice, to enjoy, and to give thanks for those subtler things in life that make it more enjoyable. And learn how to genuinely love every partner you have sex with — at least while you are having sex!
This interview has been lightly edited.