Having more cushion for the pushin' isn't necessarily a bad thing. In fact, when it comes to sex, as long as you're getting the job done making your partner come those few extra pounds really won't bother them. But it's understandable that if you feel fat, even if you're just packing a few extra pounds, being completely naked in front of someone you're attracted to could mess with your head — and maybe even your performance.
If you think this is going to involve a ton of effort, think again. There's no need to reinvent the wheel here. With the right maneuvering and the addition of a few props, you'll be set up for sweet lovemaking success — minus the stress about showing your rolls. Here are 10 sex positions to try tonight if you've got more to love on your body.
Megan Stubbs recommends giving your bed a break and taking your lovemaking out onto your much sturdier couch to get the deed done. This can be an erotic position for oral and penetrative sex. Reverse Cowgirl Cushion You likely already know the pros of the view that come with doing it in this position. But you may not be aware that reverse cowgirl also has benefits for bigger couples.
Plus, it's easier for her to move up and down, and back and forth in that position. Add a pillow for leverage. He then bends his knees so they are resting on the bed taking his lower body weight, then bends his elbows so his forearms are balancing the rest of his weight. This position gives both partner's ease of movement while being up close and personal, so an easy rhythm can be achieved for their mutual fulfillment.
Olliver says that doing it this way comes with a few key advantages for your lady. The Standing Pretzel Carlee Ranger The struggle is real, as proven by Reddit users who have shared what has worked for them when it comes to sex positions that are great for heavier people. A vibrating cock ring, and a modified version of the pretzel sex position. In the standard pretzel position, she lies on her right side. Then, you'd straddle her right leg and lift her left so that it's curled around the side of you.
We spend most of the time with her on top, grinding onto me, while I also wear a vibrating cock ring. However, one thing that has worked is 'the pretzel,' but with her on her side near the edge of the bed with me still straddling her leg as it partially hangs off. Basically I'm able to reach my furthest when standing up. Splitting Queens Carlee Ranger Don't underestimate the power of the pillow.
With a pillow, you can prop up your partner's hips to make penetration easier. You can also use a pillow to brace your partner's body so that there is less strain on their body. Don't forget a pillow under her hips, too! Sex In A Sling If one or both of you need a little more support, using a sex sling to keep certain body parts raised will help get the job done. Edging On The Bed Reddit user throwaway recommends that women with larger partners can use this position to their advantage.
His belly will be completely out of the way, plus he won't need to hold himself up. Especially for the ladies, since this position allows for front wall stimulation — upping the chance you'll hit her G-spot. But he can also be standing on the floor, with the woman in the bed, if this makes it easier. Midnight Snack Carlee Ranger One way to overcome bedroom anxiety is to take things out of the bedroom all together. Doing it in the kitchen can provide a much-needed change of scene — plus access to a handy prop that'll help you achieve deeper penetration.
This trick can be used for face to face or facing away sex. The Elevated Starfish Carlee Ranger If you're carrying around a few extra pounds, you don't want to attempt the normal starfish — where the woman lays flat on her stomach and the guy lays on top of her, and enters her while sprawled out on top. But Matt, 26, says that a modified version of the starfish has been his go-to way of pleasing his woman. I give it to her standing up, which takes my gut out of the equation.
Plus it's easier than doggy-style because I'm not putting extra weight on my knees, or leaning my body over her, which would end up hitting the top of her anyway.