Updated June 9, The unedited truth about anal sex as told by various men and women. From men that have anal sex with their wives, to guys that try it early on in the dating session, these stories capture the essence of the sex act. But every so often, you just wanna go play in the grass. With anal, I can go balls-deep without having to worry about hurting her.
Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure. Also, I just love the way a woman looks with something penetrating her lovely asshole. We still have the log ride! I like being in control, and fucking a woman in the ass is basically as submissive as you can have her. It will be costly.
It will be dangerous. I think another thing is a certain level of trust that must be present, and that she trusts me to not just drive it home at the starting gun. The feeling that she is giving up some of her humility for my pleasure, and that I am doing to her as I please. That is the attraction in real life. In porn, however, the attraction to anal is different for me.
Only a few GFs over my long and varied love life were into it, and for them it was like an occasional naughty treat. As for the raw physical characteristics of tightness and friction, vaginal is better in the long run. Aesthetically I Love every aspect of a good-looking women, and I want as much of that woman as I can get. Plus nothing says I love you like allowing me to stick it anywhere I want.
But honestly I prefer the usual hole a lot more. Imagine that you are a kid at school, and you get your school lunch every day. Every day the lunch lady gives you an apple and an orange, and then tells you not to eat the orange. So every day, you eat your apple, and leave your orange sitting on the tray. Apples are fucking amazing, you love eating them every day.
Is it as good as an apple? Is it different or the same? Around you, you can see that a few other kids are eating their oranges; they seem to be happy about it.
And you love your apple; you really do. But after years of that orange staring you right in the face, of watching other people eat their oranges and love them, you just want to eat the fucking orange and see what all the fuss is about. I have met a few women in my time that truly liked it and I think they liked it for the same reason.
You can actually give a woman an orgasm during anal by stimulating her clitoris and the result can be quite complex and different than an orgasm from straight sex. The pressure on your dick feels amazing.
And the female ass is a beautiful thing. It must be experienced. Both totally awesome, obviously. Anal is the third installment of the trilogy. Different and still amazing. Plus, when a woman is into it, the feedback of the pleasure she gets as well is mind-blowing.
On the pleasure side of things, it provides a nice change in sensation from vaginal, oral, and manual stimulation. It requires more trust and communication than regular sex, and oftentimes your SO is sacrificing some of their comfort and possibly dignity to give you pleasure. Sooner or later your gonna want to try the other place…. Also you get to goof up in there. Anal is more about shaft stimulation than head stimulation so if makes for me at least and entirely different orgasm.
And when she orgasms it spasms, which feels incredible. Anybody who says anything beyond that is just spinning their wheels, hoping to come up with a justification. I am very aggressive in bed normally choking, spitting, hitting, hair pulling, name calling, degrading, etc…. Dick goes into her body, but I still get a perfect view of that vagina.
No pressure, just teasing. In somewhat of a dominating way. Something about the fact of her never forgetting you deep inside her primal area and letting yourself go inside her is extremely erotic.
So I think there is a primal, biological reward system for a man to want to be with a woman in all ways and mix with her completely. Anus has a different texture and feel to it. The woman willing to take on pain for your pleasure is incredibly selfless and sexy. Her willingness to do that for you is a big turn-on. It also means no chance of babies either. So less tension of things possibly going wrong and having a major life change. It almost made me feel like I had a pit in my stomach.
I wanted him to stop the whole time, but I was too scared to say anything until he asked me. His dick slipped and went in my ass when he was penetrating. He put a ton of lube on and it made it a little easier, but it still felt like my asshole was ripping. Bigger is not better in terms of anal, at least in my case. Now we regularly have anal, not every time we have sex because that really hurts your butt hole, but we throw it in there to keep things interesting and we both thoroughly enjoy it.
I would never do it again. I was absolutely mortified and I will never do it again in my life. Apparently he thought it was weird, which is fine because my current boyfriend and I love it.