Have a glance at how sub-kathleen went from a miserable housewife to a happy loving slave. I take care of the housework, the bills, cooking and am care giver to my Father. The days begin early 7: The day ends somewhere between By the end of the day I am tired, frustrated and angry and all I can think about is that tomorrow when I wake I get to do this all over again. I never feel like I have finished or accomplished anything.
All I can focus on is me and how tired or frustrated I am. I am responsible for so many things and yet I feel as if I am losing control of everything. My thoughts and attitude are completely selfish and self-indulgent.
Thoughts of how hard I work and nobody appreciates me. By the time my husband returns home from his day I am breathing fire and ready to just bite his head off for no reason at all. My unhappiness is spiraling out of control and now to add to the problem I am sexually frustrated and emotionally lonely. Fast forward 9 months. Yes this is the same husband I have been married to for 19yrs. So much has changed and so much has not. My day begins earlier now 5: I wake refreshed and ready to face the day.
I step back from the ironing board and turn off my book and begin to realize just how much happier I am and how calm and at peace I am. I am bubbly and full of energy and I am hot with excitement knowing that Master will be home soon. And I have to ask — Why? As a slave my day is planned and scheduled with clear direction and expectations. We have created a daily schedule of tasks and chores and Master has included time for my own personal needs and development.
I now have time to go to the gym, have my hair and nails done. I have time to read. I no longer stress over what needs to be done or how Master likes things to be done because it has all been negotiated and planned and scheduled. Master controls the finances, I just pay the bills. Master decides when we eat, I just fix the meals. Master decides on our personal activity I just make sure I am always ready and prepared. The power exchange has been completely liberating. What has not changed: I am still a housewife with the same chores and responsibilities.
Master and I have created protocols and set time aside for us to focus on each other. Now all I have to do is follow the rules, keep to the schedule and focus on pleasing Master In return I am rewarded with appreciation, acknowledgement and praise. Master recognizes my hard work and efforts every day.
He checks my chores and tasks and acknowledges me with thoughtful warm praise Good Girl and Everything looks great or Dinner was Excellent and warm touches. So, which person would you want to come home to?
I now feel accomplished, worthy, needed and appreciated. Handing over control to Master has alleviated most of my stress. As well as an overwhelming improvement in the communication and love that we share. Master provides me with a home, direction, emotional support, open communication and acknowledgement.