Seven Easy Lessons Every guy wants to be able to attract women. But let's be honest, some guys seem to have it easy when it comes to attracting women, while other guys me included always wind up in second place or third, or fourth. When I was younger, it drove me crazy.
I wanted to know "what do these guys have that I don't have? But just as often, I knew guys who were pretty plain, badly dressed, short and out of shape - and they STILL seemed to have this ability to attract women that I didn't have.
The stuff I learned would fill a thousand blog posts, but I'll share the seven most important things I have learned right here. And if you like it, please share it with your friends and social network. Some of you might say "that's obvious", but knowing exactly what the differences are is extremely important.
Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you'll find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong. Here's a video where I explain pretty much everything you need to know about attraction in six minutes. I talk about how attraction works in women, the mistakes most guys make, and what you need to do to create attraction.
Attraction Explained in Six Minutes Please click like if this helped you, and subscribe to our channel with notifications on to get new videos as they come out! Once you really start to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.
Try to practice this tactic the next time you're in a bar because it's a crucial behavioral component to attract women. Confidence is a valuable in every element of your life, but never more so than in dating. A confident tennis player might play better and more aggressively than an unconfident tennis player, but at the end of the day, he's judged by how many points he scores in the court.
But on a date, a man is judged first by his confidence, and only later by any other factors. And most importantly, confidence is learnable. Check out this blog post on The Real Secret Of Confidence if you want to go into more depth on confidence and how to really develop it naturally. Don't brag It's great that you have a nice car and a great job, but don't tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they are not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason behind this is that women can sense that a tendency to brag likely stems from low confidence.
Instead of bragging, tell her an interesting story that allows her to decipher independently that you're successful. When you talk to a woman, make sure to have a relaxed body posture Relax your shoulders and put your weight on one leg. Lean comfortably against a wall or the bar if possible.
Most important of all, hold your drink to your side, not in front of you. Men have a tendency to hold their drinks firmly in front of their stomachs. This creates an artificial barrier between you and the woman and hinders your ability to attract her. If you can incorporate these suggestions, you will come across as a much more confident and desirable person. Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction Attraction isn't just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement.
So you can create attraction simply by doing exciting things together even if the conversation is a bit slow! I explain it in detail in this video. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don't like.
Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back. Learning how to attract women takes time and dedication, but in the end it's an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn't just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life down the road.
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