Supplied AARON Gilmore was not even a teenager when he was sexually abused by a family friend who he regarded as a second mother. Ken Clearwater was 12 years old when he said he was sexually violated by a woman and asked to do things he could never comprehend and was left scarred, ashamed and broken. He never reported that abuse or named the woman involved. Now a father-of-two children and the owner of a dancing school in Auckland, Mr Gilmore told news.
She was jailed for five years for the sexual violation of Mr Gilmore in Initially, Shaskey was charged with cruelty to a child but this was upgraded to sexual violation. While the NZ Dancing with the Stars performer has learned to cope with what took place during his formative years, it left him feeling numb and like a shell.
He said he felt he was unable to escape from the abuse. He began to stay over and eventually moved in with Shaskey after his parents accepted her home was closer to his high school. What started as hugging and kissing on the cheek soon progressed to much more but as the months wore on he said he became more uncomfortable with the situation and wanted out.
Aaron Gilmore is a vocal advocate for sex abuse survivors. Feeling trapped, he felt he had no choice but to stay. He managed to escape the situation when he was With the help of his partner and mother of his two children he went to the police. The police reaction was one he will never forget. Already having suffered a rape at the hands of a man, he never expected to be abused by a woman. That abuse, which followed a rape six months earlier, destroyed the tiny amount of innocence and trust he had left.
Alan William Davies was arrested and spent time in jail for abusing the young Ken after being charged with two counts of indecent assault. Ken Clearwater today, and inset when he was a boy pictured around the time of the abuse.
All these things helped get me through the tough times. One in 15 men 0. But surprisingly more men experienced sexual assault by a female , than at the hands of another man 72, A new paper titled Sexual Victimisation Perpetrated by Women: Federal Data Reveal Surprising Prevalence , contradicts the idea that female sexual perpetration is rare.
Researchers used data from four main surveys, including from the Centres for Disease Control and Prevention , to reach their conclusion.
Using CDC data, they found that women and men reported a nearly equal rates of non-consensual sex in a month period. Rape and sexual assault in Australia7: