Despite what we see in the movies, first time romps are rarely the most orgasm-inducing, rocket-blasting sensual experiences of our burgeoning sex lives. And what about having sex with a woman? When two women have sex, it is as unique, awkward and liberating as any other kind of sex. Sex between two women is valid, strange and beautiful. We went out to a house party and started dancing together. When we got back to my place to crash, I invited her to sleep in my bed.
Then I asked if I could kiss her. Do you want to try? I was so nervous! It was such a natural and liberating experience. It was also one of the few times I felt dominate and in control with a sexual partner. But my first partner eased me into the feeling.
I could definitely tell that we were attracted to each other and I was always nervous around her. We crawled up into her bunk bed at camp and at some point, she put her arm around me. The next thing I knew we were kissing and the next thing I knew she was going down on me! I was nervous as hell once we started kissing, but after a few seconds, it felt so right, that I was totally swept up in the moment!
And then I started going down on her, and even though I had never done it before, it just felt really natural. I mean how could we be normal around each other after we had experienced this crazy-intense sexual experience? We avoided each other. I literally used to Google: I had no idea what I was doing. There was a lot of hand-stuff and messy-kissing all over the place. After that, I started kissing more and more girls until the opportunity came again.
The second time was definitely better. The three of us spent two steamy days rolling around together. My best friend still has no idea.