This article is part of a series on the best sex toys out there. Take the guesswork out of choosing a sex toy, and above all, have fun. Whether we want to believe it or not, our North American culture is still deeply confused about sex and pleasure. We all have sex. We all love sex. We all want sex. But there are still people out there who hold that reproduction is the function and that pleasure is not at the forefront of our sexual lives. To those people, we say, get real.
Sex is about connection, exploration, pleasure and fun. What is more fun than toys? We know sex toys can be intimidating to introduce to new partnerships or one-night stands , and a lot of questions hang in the air: Which toys are safest? Which toys are better for different types of play? Will I need lube? How do I actually use this damn thing?
We have compiled a list of 20 of our favorite toys meant to please her and you. On here, we have the go-to guide for bullets, vibes, plugs and clamps. It has finger pads that vibrate and coax you along through everything from petting to hand jobs.
The Bullet is versatile and compact. This is a great beginner toy that is great when coupled with old toys or even on its own. This thing works in any O-zone, so just have fun. Private O has easy-to-grip TPR inlays and a special flutter effect that reaches deep. It has several settings so you can personalize your experience, and also comes with a new QuietCore piston for total peace of mind. It's completely waterproof for underwater suction and vibration. Summer may be ending no more pool sex , but chlorine sex will almost always throw off her pH balance.
We suggest trying this Jimmy Jane in the shower because why not? This strong vibrator has dual speeds, a long handle for easy maneuvering, a comfortable and gentle spring head, and comes with the promise of longer battery life than other wands. Yeah, your iPhone tells you how to get from Point A to Point B, but the Wand Massager will get her off in ways she never imagined possible. Form 2 is great for clitoral and labia play when you are spending time on her, but you can be adventurous with this toy due to its flexible ears.
This piece is ideal for vaginal play and clitoral stimulation at the same time. Warning, it is silicone. No bells and whistles here. These simple plugs come in three different sizes and maximize fullness. Very pliable and gentle. Basically, this U-shaped vibrator works best when you are intimate together.
Insert the wings into her to stimulate outside and in while you get down. Or you can use it on her and she can do the same to you during other play.
There are nine speeds and many different pulses to play around with. This is the best toy for newbie couple play. Pay attention to her neck and chest for a while longer than 30 seconds, please. For those of you who want to take that touch further and stronger , the Petite Vibrating Nipple Teasers are a great beginners tool. They are gentle for sensitive women, easy to use and battery operated. Try it on her or you It was simple fun, right?
Well, Waterproof Finger Fun is basically those for adults. This stimulation mini-vibe hooks onto your finger and you do the rest. This kit comes with a numbing lollipop and other treats deep throat spray to ice up your play. Some people are deep into icy cool oral and, if not, being fresh always rules.
The Assifier may have a name that makes it sound like you are about to be turned inside out, but this toy is actually super gentle and friendly for first timers.
Softest in the game. This Rabbit toy lights up, is waterproof for shower play, has multiple speeds, clitoral stimulation ears and all the bells and whistles. Be sure to bring this one out into the bedroom with a girl who is ready to go for it.
This toy is completely flexible and can be molded to her exact shape. We recommend you use this one with a water-based lube and take your time. To start with, it's bestowed with JimmyJane's signature body-safe silicone, which is soft and comfortable to handle. As for the functions, this isn't your average vibrator — not only does it have multiple settings for stimulating and bringing the clitoral to climax, but its rotating head simultaneously massages her g-spot for a full body experience.